{"id":875,"date":"2020-10-25T15:26:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T13:26:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ramblingrabbit.co.za\/?p=875"},"modified":"2026-05-11T08:20:00","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T08:20:00","slug":"today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ramblingrabbit.co.za\/di\/2020\/10\/25\/today\/","title":{"rendered":"Today"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Today &#8211; 45 years, 7 hours and 10 minutes ago &#8211; I made contact with this world for the first time (unless reincarnation is real&#8230;\ud83e\udd14) I would like to believe that it was a good day and that people celebrated&#8230;I would not really know, because it was a Saturday, and knowing my family, they celebrated regardless \ud83d\ude02 Baby or no baby!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">My birthdays used to be spectacular!! Always a party with lots of people, music and lots and lots of drinking&#8230;IMO always fun, good times with lots of shenanigans! But this all changed and is a part of the previous Jenny&#8217;s past&#8230;the fun one\ud83d\ude12 Like my ex said to me, the day he broke up:  &#8220;You used to be fun, partying and excitement&#8230;Now it&#8217;s only neurologists, therapy and hospitals&#8230;&#8221;. In those days, I consoled myself with the &#8216;at least I still have my friends&#8217; mantra&#8230;mmm apparently I was mistaken about that as well. Well you know what they say&#8230;It is what it is \ud83d\ude0f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">But all the &#8216;friends&#8217; and &#8216;loves&#8217; lost, made me realise how amazing and wonderful my children are! Always there for me, always loving me. Always making sure that this day of the year, is super-special, filled with love and care. All of it just for me! And wouldn&#8217;t you know it&#8230;I am not expected to be fun or exciting, they love me all the same. It feels funny in a way&#8230;.I&#8217;m not used to so much attention. It&#8217;s hard to explain but takes me back to a time when I was a little girl! My mother was the last person (before my children) that made a woo-ha about the day I was born. I missed her special pampering for many years, after she passed away&#8230; I hope, I will never disappoint my children too much, that I will always be there for them and that I will always be enough &#8211; even when I don&#8217;t really have a sense of humour, my idea of fun is cuddling with my doggies, sharing a bag of chips&#8230; and the most exciting thing I do, is descending from the stairs too fast! They are growing up so fast and I&#8217;m just getting older! I&#8217;m grasping at every second with them and trying to stuff it into a part of my brain that will keep the memories&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Time is precious my friends, but time is also fleeting&#8230;the time we have, is now &#8211; not yesterday&#8230;not tomorrow, but today. Never waste it, never take it for granted! Be grateful. Be thankful. 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